"There comes a point when you either embrace who and what you are, or condemn yourself to be miserable all your days. There will always be people in your life who will try to make you miserable. Don’t help them by doing the job yourself!"
destroy this new idea that a woman can’t be strong if she cries over a man she’s lost. destroy the idea that you have to be cold and emotionally detached in order to be a strong woman
(Source: spookywildling, via zubat)
Do you ever have that moment when a kid is looking at you and you realize that they’re looking at you as a grown up? Then its like no child im a children too, dont. Im sorry my outward appearance confuses you.
One of the most amazing feelings in the world is having someone fall in love with you who you thought you never had a chance with.
so yes, get into some thayers witch hazel and some rose hip seed oil but also get into some audre lorde and understand that black and brown ppl are seen as disposable and that black 64,000+ black girls are missing in america and that i’m not here to hold your hand and sing spirituals with u.
I know why God is letting me get curved so much. She knows if I don’t get curved I’m going to be an out of control hoe. She is trying to protect me from my ways GOD IS TRYING TO BE MY GUIDANCE OF LIGHT A HEALER OF THE UPMOST yes yes it all makes sense now.
am I ugly? what if the face I see in mirrors and pictures is like magic and I really got a different face that’s why I’m getting curved, swerved and slept on.
"It’s always always always about you. It’s always. It’s always about you. No one can speak to you in a way that demeans your spirit, unless you’re willing to be demeaned or you feel you deserve that in some kind of way. It just cannot. You can only betray yourself."